He is saying it LOUD AND CLEAR who you are to him and where you stand.Ħ. Whether it’s This is Angela, Regina, my people, my homegirl, or my FRIEND….that is who you are to him at that very moment. “This is my friend or this is Angela”- If there is no title attached to your introduction, you are exactly who he is introducing you as. So if you are expecting something more or have made it your goal to convert this into a serious relationship, don’t waste your time.ĥ. Yes he is enjoying spending time with you whatever it may be whether it’s going out or being intimate but he is by no means in a rush to transfer this friendship into a relationship. “We are just having a good time” – Take the words for face value “a good time” He doesn’t plan in the near future to convert you to his woman just yet. Often times we may want to believe that a man we just met is truthful when he says “I’m totally single but have friends.” What that usually means is he has other options and he is either waiting on the “right one” or he is loving his single life.Ĥ. What we’ve learned is, as women we should always err on the side of “there is always someone he can call and someone that is calling him” even if he’s single. This means exactly what he said, he has “female friends” in rotation and most often some romantically. Put an end to the behavior by not being available next time and letting him know it’s totally not ok.ģ.“I have friends” – Yes ladies, there’s no need to ponder this statement any further. And depending on how you’ve responded in the past, he probably knows there are no consequences if he offers a great excuse so it will happen again and again. For instance, if you know the two of you made concrete plans to go out or you were to meet him somewhere and he’s nowhere to be found not only at the meeting time but for hours and even days afterwards, you’re just not a priority. “I promise” (Only he doesn’t come through) – If he consistently promises to do things, then doesn’t show up or call, put more stock in his actions instead of the excuse. He could be very comfortable with who he is and the way he’s done things over the years and he’s not planning on making any adjustments.Ģ. It translates to I like things the way they are and I am not looking to add or change anything. “I’m good!” – When a man says he’s good, believe him. We’ve taken the top 11 occurrences to help you decode what he’s REALLY saying to you. It’s so easy for us to hear one thing when our man is really saying another. It happens so often that we devoted an entire section of our book, Relationship DUOvers, to this very topic. One of the biggest challenges we hear from our clients from their past relationship patterns is having communication issues and misinterpretations when dating.
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